Introducing ME!

Hola! I'm Chelsea but often called Chels. I will say that when Candice came to me with this idea, I was incredibly excited. Being that I was currently on this journey of my own, to know that God had given her a vision was extremely encouraging!


Sooo..let's get to know me a little. I don't really know any other way to say this but I was always the "poster child." I've always gotten good grades, was respectful, and PERFECT. Not really, but you know how that goes. I pretty much let people define me and in their eyes, I could do nothing wrong. But talk about the pressure!

I started off in school majoring in Pre-Med. I was always great at Math and Science so when people told me "Yea you're a doctor." I accepted it as what I was suppose to do. Wrong Choice! haha Coming from a family of alot of ministers, pastors, "church folk," I was very involved with church but by involved, meaning I was there but not THERE. Can somebody say "lukewarm?"

But I am happy to say that eventually I got on track of having a REAL relationship with God and have been going strong for a few years now. And I can't even explain how awesome it is! But one thing I realized is that the person I thought I knew, was really the person that everyone told me I was. And that the REAL me, the person God had predestined me to be, had yet to surface. Then I began the journey of self discovery and everyday I'm more amazed at the things that are being revealed. Who would've thought???

But on top of that, I must become who God intended me to be for His sake, my families sake, and all the people that I'm predestined to cross paths with. Project Wifey is a documentation of becoming the "all around" woman. The ideal woman or man has the qualities that I feel a wife or husband should have. So how important is it to be the person you desire to have in your life. So excited!

Remember to smile alot today!

And The Introductions Continue.....

Hello all!


I'm Candice Victoria and I want to welcome you to my official "Project Wifey" site.  If you've read the first posting, then you learned that this is a journey that two young ladies (my bestest friend in the whole wide world, Chels, and myself) are taking.  Each of us will take turns blogging and v-logging via YouTube, once we get a nice, reliable camera--hopefully within the next couple of months =).


Now what exactly is Project Wifey again??


As of now, it's a blog of self-discovery.  It's a way for us to get our life together, work on ourselves, and become reacquainted with who we really are.


Why the name Project Wifey?


Well, I've been observing relationships all over the world for awhile.  Well, not literally (haha) but... through the media, in high school/college, in the church, in my immediate and extended families, and even a relationship of my own that went sour.


I always wonder WHY there are soooo many divorces going on, especially with celebrities.  You can't even keep up with who's with who now, because as soon as a marriage gets goin', you find out they're splitting up.  And some of these people are divorcing after 15, 18, 20 years of marriage! Like, what the world?


I don't understand why people would invest in such a luxurious wedding if they weren't gonna STAY together. I understand that unforeseen circumstances happen, such as a cheating partner or domestic violence in the relationship, but I'm under the impression that people just get bored! And they go with the notion that, "The grass is greener on the other side."  I don't think these people know who they really are, so they jump into relationship after relationship trying to fill a void that their partner is unable to fill.


People have so many high expectations for their potential mate, but they don't even measure up to their own expectations.  I love this line from Lyfe Jenning's song, "Statistics":

"Be the person you want to find.  Don't be a nickel out here looking for a dime."

So, the name of this blog pretty much came from that statement.  We're trying to be ALL that we expect others to be.  For the ladies: we are developing "wifey" attributes, so when Mr. Right comes along, we are READY and we won't have to go through a long depressing period of, "I don't know who I am!!! ...Or what I like or what I wanna do with my life!!!" lol

For the fellas, don't let the term "wifey" keep you away.  Everyone needs to go on this journey.  You need to know and love yourself before you expect others to dig through your dirty laundry.

Ok, I think I've written enough for tonight.  Sorry, if it sounded like I was all over the place.  I was watching TV, looking at YouTube, and trying to get my thoughts together. Haha...but I'm excitedddd!

Have a good night/morning peeps!

Introducing Project Wifey

I'm sure most people might see Project Wifey written somewhere and think to themselves, "Hmm, this must be about somebody trying to get a man." Well, not quite. Project Wifey is much more than any of that. There is a very important journey that every person must go on, the journey of self discovery. Separations and divorces are so common today. It's easy to blame so many other factors but what's the root of the issue? Is it possible that a lack of self understanding and wholeness between two individual people can cause chaos once the two become one? This will be a journey of two Christian young women who are determined to get all that God has for them during their season of singleness and ultimately striving for the true definition of wholeness.

Candice Victoria

Chels. C